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河南:19岁少女为等初恋40年不嫁 63岁时和其结婚(图)  

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河南:19岁少女为等初恋40年不嫁 63岁时和其结婚(图) 
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令她惊喜的是,再相见时,他也未娶。63岁那年,她终于嫁给了自己等待的人。
图为邢玉莲老人拿出结婚证给记者看。
原标题:漯河女孩苦等40年 63岁终和去台湾的初恋情人结婚
曾经沧海难为水,除却巫山不是云。
也许,正是这样的感受,让一个19岁的女孩,在初恋对象毫无音讯的情况下,等了40年。
令她惊喜的是,再相见时,他也未娶。63岁那年,她终于嫁给了自己等待的人。
本来以为可以彼此相守、共度晚年,不料,还没来得及团聚,他就去世了。
他留给她10万元钱,想让她安度晚年。
如今,85岁的她在临颍生活。
3月21日,记者赶到临颍,聆听为爱情坚守一生的邢玉莲老人的爱情故事。
19岁,她爱上了他
邢玉莲老人是临颍县人,十几岁时,跟随姐姐到开封生活。
1949年年初,19岁的邢玉莲,经人介绍认识了一个名叫赵国盛的小伙子。赵国盛是开封人,比邢玉莲大一岁。
两人一见钟情。
“老赵年轻时候长得帅,人也本分,我一看就知道他是个好人,可喜欢他了。当时处对象,跟现在的年轻人不一样,连喊着见一次面都不好意思。”时隔66年,邢玉莲说起她的初恋,依然像一个娇羞的少女,满脸欢喜。
半年后,两人谈婚论嫁。1949年年底,他俩还没有来得及完婚,赵国盛就去了台湾。
“我和老赵,从认识到他离开,还不到一年时间。我俩也就见过五六次面,但都认定对方是一辈子要找的人。”邢玉莲说,他们是彼此的初恋,即便老赵去了台湾,她也从来没有想过和别人结婚。
40年,她一直在等他
赵国盛临走时,对邢玉莲说:“我会回来娶你的,你要等我。”因为这一句话,赵国盛走后,
19岁的邢玉莲暗自立下誓言,一定要等他回来。
这一等,就是40年。
40年里,虽然没有赵国盛的消息,但是为了爱情和承诺,邢玉莲没有相亲。
外人觉得她偏执,其实她想得很简单。
“我感觉其他男人都不如他。最重要的是,他说了会回来娶我的,我相信他。”邢玉莲说。
终于,1989年的一天,邢玉莲接到一个电话,通知她到郑州跟赵国盛见面。
40年的等待,邢玉莲从一个妙龄少女变成了一个白发苍苍的老人。
“他走的时候,我还是十八九的大闺女,再见面都是老太婆了,头发都白了……
已经几十年没有他的信儿了,也不知道他在那边结婚了没有?”
即将相见的喜悦和害怕老赵结婚的焦虑,让她彻夜难眠。
后来,在母亲的陪同下,邢玉莲到郑州跟赵国盛见了一面。
“老邢,你还好吧?”“还中。老赵,你身体咋样?”这是分别40年后,
邢玉莲和赵国盛再见面时,彼此说的第一句话。直到现在,她还记得当时的情景。
见面的时间非常短,大概20分钟。但他俩知道了,他俩都是单身,都在等对方。
63岁,她和初恋情人结了婚
1993年,赵国盛回乡探亲期间,邢玉莲和他领了结婚证。
邢玉莲老人拿出她的结婚证给记者看。
邢玉莲老人笑着对记者说:“你看,老赵是不是可帅?”婚后,赵国盛回了台湾。
此后六年,他俩见过四五次面,都是在赵国盛回乡探亲期间。
而每次回乡探亲,赵国盛待几天就走了。平时,他俩靠书信了解对方的情况。
“后来,老赵说要把我接到台湾去,他已经开始办手续了。我挺高兴的。俺俩六十多了才结婚,也没有孩子,在哪儿生活都一样,老了能有个伴儿就知足了。所以,我天天在家盼着老赵回来接我去团聚。”说到这里,邢玉莲老人流下了眼泪。因为这次,老赵没能实现他的诺言。3月21日,记者初见邢玉莲老人,天色近黄昏,她拄着拐杖站在小区门口等。老人家里,偌大的房间空空荡荡,摆着几件旧式家具。她的眼睛也不太好。
1999年,邢玉莲去台湾的手续还没有办好,赵国盛老人就去世了。
他给她留下10万元养老钱
目前,85岁的邢玉莲老人,独自住在临颍县规划路中段。
“她原来在开封生活。这几年,我和几个临颍的亲戚把她接回来了。她住的房子,是一个亲戚的。她老伴儿去世后,给她留了10万元钱。在16年前,有10万元钱,养老应该是没有问题的。”邢玉莲的外甥女告诉记者,现在邢玉莲每月有260多元的低保。
邢玉莲老人说,大约10年前,一个街坊向她借了8万元钱,至今未还。
3月24日,记者从临颍县人民法院了解到,邢玉莲老人还没有拿回她的钱,但案件已被列为重点案件。

Henan: 19-year-old girl for the first love 40-year-old and married 63-year-old (Figure)
Henan: 19-year-old girl for the first love 40-year-old and married 63-year-old (Figure)
2015-03-26 17:52
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To her surprise, when she met again, he did not marry. 63 years old, she finally married to wait for their own people.
The photo shows Xing Yu-lian elderly marriage certificate to the reporter to see.
Original title: Luohe girl waiting for 40 years 63-year-old and finally to Taiwan's first love Valentine married
once having seen the best, the rest is not worthwhile looking.
Perhaps, it is such a feeling that a 19-year-old girl waited 40 years for her first love without any information.
To her surprise, when she met again, he did not marry. 63 years old, she finally married to wait for their own people.
I thought I could spend time with each other and spend my later years. Unexpectedly, before he could get together, he died.
He left her 100,000 yuan money, want her to sett
le down old age.
Today, she lives at Linying at the age of 85.
March 21, reporters rushed to Lin Ying, listen to the love of the life of Xing Yulian elderly love story.
19 years old, she fell in love with him
Xing Yulian old people are Linying County, teens, follow my sister to Kaifeng life.
In early 1949, 19-year-old Xing Yulian met with a man named Zhao Guosheng. Zhao Guosheng is Kaifeng, one year older than Xing Yulian. They fall in love at first sight.
'When Zhao was handsome and young, she also had the duty to know that I was a good man and liked him .At that time, she was different from the present young people. 'After 66 years, Xing Yulian talked about her first love, still like a shy girl, face happy.
Six months later, the two married to marry. By the end of 1949, they had not yet had time to get married, and Zhao Guosheng went to Taiwan.
'I and Lao Zhao, from recognizing that he left in less than a year, we have met five or six times, but both find each other a lifetime to find people.' Xing Yulian said they are each other's first love Even if Lao Zhao went to Taiwan, she never thought of marrying others.
For 40 years, she has been waiting for him
When Zhao Guosheng left, she said to Xing Yulian: 'I will come back to marry you, and you will wait for me.' Because of this remark, Zhao Guosheng left the 19-year-old Xing Yulian secretly vowing to wait for him to come back.
This is 40 years.
40 years, although there is no news of Zhao Guosheng, but love and commitment, Xing Yulian no blind date.
Outsiders think she paranoid, in fact, she thought very simple.
'I feel like other men are not as good as him. Most importantly, he said he would come back to marry me, I believe him.' Xing Yulian said.
Finally, one day in 1989, Xing Yulian received a phone call informing her that she would meet with Zhao Guosheng in Zhengzhou.
40 years of waiting, Xing Yulian from a young girl into a white-haired old man.
'When he left, I was still a virgin of eighteen nine, and I was met by an old woman again. My hair was white ... It had been decades since I did not have his letter and did not know if he was married there? The upcoming joys and fears of marriage anxiety Zhao, let her sleep all night long.
Later, accompanied by his mother, Xing Yulian met with Zhao Guosheng in Zhengzhou.
'Old Xing, how are you?' 'Still in. Old Zhao, how are you?' This is the first sentence of each other after Xing Yulian and Zhao Guosheng met again 40 years later. Until now, she remembered the scene at the time.
The time to meet is very short, about 20 minutes. But they both knew that both of them were single and were waiting for each other.
63 years old, she married her first love
In 1993, Zhao Guosheng hometown to visit relatives, Xing Yulian and he received a marriage certificate.
Xing Yulian elderly took out her marriage certificate to reporters.
Xing Yulian old man smiled and told reporters: 'You see, Zhao is not handsome?' After marriage, Zhao Guosheng back to Taiwan. After six years, they have seen four or five times, both during the visit to their hometown Zhao Guosheng.
And each return home to visit relatives, Zhao Sheng took a few days left. Usually, they rely on letters to understand each other's situation.
'Later, Zhao said I should go to Taiwan to go, he has already started formalities .I am very happy .At two more than sixty married, no children, where life is the same, the old can have a With children satisfied .So, every day I look forward to returning home to pick me up to join Zhao. 'Here, Xing Yulian shed tears. Because this time, Zhao failed to achieve his promise.
In 1999, Xing Yulian went to Taiwan formalities have not been handled, Zhao Guosheng elderly died.
He left her 100,000 yuan pension money
At present, the 85-year-old Xing Yulian elderly live alone in the middle of Planning Road, Linying County.
March 21, the reporter saw Xing Yulian old man, the sky near dusk, she stood on crutches at the cell door and so on. Elderly people, huge room empty, with a few pieces of old-fashioned furniture. Her eyes are not very good.
'She was originally living in Kaifeng in the past few years, I and several Linying relatives took her back in. She lives in a house, is a relative, and her husband died after her husband, gave her 100,000 yuan left. 16 years ago, there are 100,000 yuan, pension should be no problem. 'Xing Yulian niece told reporters that now Xingyulian monthly minimum 260 yuan.
Xing Yulian old man said about 10 years ago, a neighborhood borrowed 80,000 yuan from her money, has not yet returned.
March 24, the reporter learned from the People's Court Linying County, Xing Yulian old man did not get her money back, but the case has been classified as a key case.
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